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    February 16

    差别

    最近陆陆续续收到据信,发现公司和公司的水平差距还真的很大。给两个sample。
     
    最没水平的:
    Dear Lingling,
    Thank you for your application to join HSBC.
    We regret to inform you that your first round interview was unsuccessful.  May we take this opportunity to thank you for your interest in HSBC.
    Kind regards,
    HSBC Graduate Recruitment Team
     
    相对比较sophisticate的:
    Dear Lingling,
    Thank you for interviewing with us for the Investment Banking Division Summer Associate Program with Morgan Stanley Asia Pacific Region.  We enjoyed talking to you and learning more about your experiences and interests.
    Careful consideration has been given to each individual interviewed. You have an impressive background,however, based on our hiring needs, we are unable to proceed further with your application at this time. This decision does not in any way reflect negatively on your credentials.
    Kindly note that, Morgan Stanley firm policy prevents us from disclosing the reason that we cannot pursue your candidacy for our Asia Pacific program. 
    We would encourage you to continue to review your fit with the job descriptions for future programs and wish you the best for your future career endeavors.
    Yours sincerely,
    Asia Pacific Recruiting Team
    February 02

    岁月

    用这么大的题目,实在是有感而发,来自早上看的一部电影《Revolutionary Road》。
     
    十年前初夏的某个夜晚,我独自坐在家乡的电影院,看《Titanic》,看到Rose站在甲板迎风伸展双臂Jack从她身后搂住腰的片段,感动地泪流满面。反复琢磨着那句“You jump, I jump”,心想爱情怎么这么美好,这么惊天动地,那时的我还未谈过一场恋爱,也许在一些被压抑着的小猫小狗的暧昧情绪中。
     
    十年后的今天,我独自窝在被窝,看《Revolutionary Road》,看到April因为对现实平淡生活的不满却无能为力而歇斯底里的向Frank发脾气,而Frank回敬着同样伤人的话,陷入极深极深的悲哀中。悲哀的不是电影本身,而是我竟然能如此深刻的理解他们的无奈和绝望还有向现实的妥协。
     
    把这两部电影联系在一起的是相同的男女主演,Leonard Dicaprio和Kate Winslet。Kate还好,脸上没有很深的岁月痕迹,Leo明显有些发福苍老,有抬头纹。
     
    而这十年间,我经历了多少改变呢。
    十年内我离开家乡小城,去了上海,又飘到美国,算命的说我适合动荡的生活。
    十年内给我写纸条的那些男生和我暗恋过的男生应该都各自成家,有了各自的朱砂痣或明月光,当然也可能是蚊子血或饭米粒,散落在各地。
    十年内我就谈了一场正儿八经的恋爱,也修成正果,曾经如胶似漆,如今却分飞在两地。
    十年前我觉得生活的画卷还未展开,未来不知如何,但充满无数的可能性,想做什么都可以,觉得电影小说电视剧中的生活离我其实很近。十年后基本能看清生活的轨迹,虽然仍然相信在小事上“生活仍然像一盒巧克力,你永远不知道能得到什么”,但大方向应该就是这样了。
    十年前我觉得自己外表幼稚内心成熟,十年后我醒悟过来原来我心灵成长的速度远远慢于我的皮囊,有现在很难消除的眼袋为证。
    十年内我没长高,净长胖,并且趋势不可扭转。头发留长剪短又留长,眼镜近视度数越来越深,镜片倒是越来越小,最后隐藏到眼眶里。
    十年内我一路脚踩西瓜皮,谨慎地滑着,不知道远方在哪里,又如何到达,于是十年后还是觉得自己是阴天里的向日葵一朵。
    十年内身边朋友来来往往,看上去热闹纷呈,常常联系的却没几个,江湖上一路有人相伴,却没几个能一起走得很久很远,当然这主要是怪我疏于联系,有坏事不愿麻烦人,有好事也不喜大肆张扬,没事更不愿废话。
    未完,困了,待续吧。